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I have a confession to make. Some years ago, while enjoying solace in a cafe, a well-nourished white bloke accosted me by thrusting his newly purchased cookbook in my face and demanding an autograph. Just to be clear, the Australa chef Kylie Kwong and I both wear glasses but, beyond that, we share few similarities.

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Earlier this year, Live Maryborough sex went on a date with a man who womeh me he had a thing for Asian women. We were sitting across from each other at a table in a fancy restaurant and he stood up to do a head-to-toe scan of me. I am sick of being fetishised because of racist stereotypes about "small and compliant" Asian women. Credit: Stocksy.

I told myself to run. Here was yet another man woomen what is not-so-jokingly referred to as Yellow Fever: the lazy and discriminatory hyper-sexualisation and fetishisation of Asian women, primarily by white men, solely based on race. When I tried to break it off with Latin matures in Australia, he texted: "I hate you.

Thankfully, there are thousands of gorgeous Japanese, Chinese and Korean girls in Sydney, so I will be okay. This is not unusual. I have spent most of my adult life expending psychological and emotional energy fending off men like.

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im I have an Asian face. Women like me are handcuffed to a double bind. We have to fight off men who infantilise us because of our small bodies, and who also believe the Asian face carries some special gene that makes us soft-spoken, gentle and non-confrontational.

I continue to be astounded by the number of white men who still see me and immediately assume I am "submissive, docile, compliant, accommodating, sweet in the kitchen, tiger in the bedroom". My body is viewed as a literal and symbolic site upon which to construct their fantasies of the perfect Asian lover. The pernicious perception that most Asian women are easy in Australia Asian women have petite, child-like bodies is not necessarily untrue.

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They operate under a system of racial stratification themselves as superiorleaving Asian women to take on Asian women are easy in Australia disproportionate burden of fulfilling, resisting, or negotiating their stereotypes. I wonder whether I will go through my life in this country upending stereotypes. It is not my job, or the job of other Asian women, to do. Austra,ia of my Anglo Australian friends keep asking me how I find Australia.

I know what they want me to say — that's it's a fabulous country that offers a Fair Go somen all, and a true melting pot of different cultures.

And, with 19 per cent of Sydney's population today of Asian descent, and 18 per cent of Melbourne's, life for me as a woman with a Vietnamese background really shouldn't be much different to anyone else's.

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Everyone knows, you see, that Asians are either trying to smuggle food or drugs into the country or causing trouble by swimming when they don't actually know. Watching it, you could be forgiven for thinking that it's still bound by the White Australia Policy which, after all, was only finally disbanded in In other media too, the image projected of Australia is still very much one of a population of mostly Anglos.

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