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Maybe it's a cop-out to look for some label for what I've done over the wlth and thereby somehow shift the responsibility for my wrong behaviours on some "dis-ease". In my case, I endured a very abusive childhood and clearly, I decided the only way to hide my inadequacies and self-doubt was to present a strong character and convince everyone around me that I was worthy of praise and respect.
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